How can we be such Insensitive !!!! Can we be better than Beasts.

Can we?? This very question have been bugging my nights going almost sleepless . The recent Delhi gang rape case which almost the very nation has thrown this very question right in front of us . How can we be such savage beasts ?

Jyoti Singh Pandey (aka Damini, Nirbhaya, Amanat) the girl who lost the battle against death and succumbed to her injuries has a heart wrenching story to tell . This very incident has brought to light our very approach, thinking and our middle-class ultra conservative mindset . And adding woes to our sorrow are the deliberate non-sense comments from our so-called esteemed leaders . We the Indians still thinks our women a commodity, a toy for Sex & Pleasure . What grieved me the most, is even after such an outrageous incident it has hardly affected many of us. We are still in our materialistic world of pleasure . And what was more shocking, that few of my female friends are quite unaware of such incidents as if it had been a daily debate of discussion and they are just the mute spectators . They are  even unaware of any helpline that do exists, tailor made by the Govt. for their safety . There were even few of my male friends who came forward to say that what was the need to go out in night for a movie . WTF?? Are you trying to say that girls are born to be enslaved by others . Don't they have the right to speak or act for themselves . If a girl runs away with a boy, its the girl who burns the heat of victim . If a girl is raped it's she who is ostracized from society while the boy moves with pride and valor . If a girl denies to someone's proposal, they threw acid on them .Is  this for what our fore fathers fought for freedom .This nation has to change . There is lot to quote as examples . Haryana's Khap Panchayat is no better than the murderers who kill somebody only in the name of family reputation and dignity . Even there are so called well-educated men who even in this date don't hesitate to ask for a dowry and what's more interesting is their argument they put in place to prove their point .Shame !!! Today I really feel hurt and irritate how we Indians have  become . In the name of religion, name, sex, caste we have killed our conscience, we have awaken the demons that had been dormant for years . Sometime I curse the God whom I have been following blindly till date from my childhood that "At least how can he be so indifferent to that poor girl " RIP .

Life is like an Ocean, sail with the wind , U will never be at loss

Love, Money and Friends are just like a fancy cocktail in a glass . A right proportion of the trio makes your life a smooth sail . When any of the three gets a pound heavier, it subsidize the the other two . Nonetheless each of the 3 has their own importance and stand in a person's life .

How all the things did upturn, its still seems a dream to me . Though quick however it was a smooth transition from Pune to Bengaluru . I had always dreamt to be here along with my best of buddies and finally it did come true . The remembrance though weak but still has its print tracing back to the days when I would joke to Nita or Shruti someday I will really leave WIPRO and join ORACLE . Though craziest and wild I was not sure will  I ever be able to make or not and finally, I am here . A hearty thanks to all my well wishers and family who have made it happen to this date .

And last, big thanks to my best Buddy Surya, Shakti and others for their affection and help towards my comfortable stay till date . THANKS YAAR ;) .

Don't think of World to be fair to you since you had been fair, it's similar treading into a Lion's Den & expecting the Lion not to prey U

A few days back saw the above post in Facebook marked as a status update by a close friend . It may not be a most coveted or popular one but indeed a fairer one .The naked truth of the humanity , why say humanity but of the whole living kingdom . It's the basic principle for the ultimate survival . And what made me to incline to this are few of the recent events that really rocked me .
I made friend with trust but they broke with distrust . Till few days back everything was smooth & well going . But how the sequence of recent events upset the whole thing was really surprising . I had never thought of what did happen and everything so concurrent that if u match the events you will have your answer . Had I been wise  and listened to my friends probably I would have saved myself from the disaster but destiny had something else  to write . However the 1 thing they taught, trust them whom you know and had been your support in bad times. Go by your heart but also have your brain to guide u though the tumultuous times . 

" A D I E U "

No Hard feelings , NO long talks. Unexpected was this sudden change of yours. Never had thought of your such sudden exit. For a second, heart reprimanded but there is nothing we can do just can wish for your well being. Don't know what will be the after cause, after you have left . Well , to be in one of the prestigious institute like IIT is what every Engineer dreams of, may be for a graduation or a master degree. So , first of all a Hearty Cogratulations for your success (Now proudly we can boast of atleast me that Sahoos' are not the one to be messed of ). Might be for a short period , it had been one the most memorable experience to be part of this CNC team , sharing the same ladder with you to climb up. And completely sure that none (i.e. Rajeev, Savata, Sandeep or Sunil or other senior Team members) will ever deny of this. Feels like a decade , a chapter has come to an end. The smileys' will miss u the most , probably doesn't know when will be up again for somebody or not. Giggling of Raju will have its last laugh. Prags !!!!!! will never be called up again nor will be teased again. No Idea if anyone  will stay late to send the Last Handover because the traffic will be heavy and Ajay needs to start to avoid rush and late . These happy moments will never live up again and probably if ever comes up will never be lively as before.

Words will never suffice the pain of your exit and probably none will ever be able to take your seat. 'Pragyan' will never echo in the Baxter ODC. Seems a story is nearing the end and waiting for the fresh episode to start. My Transfer to Pune had also not been so painful than your exit. It was so sudden and unexpected, felt like a bolt from the blue and sure that same would have been the case with everybody. Par woh kehte hain na " Jo hota hai bhale ke liye hi hota hai",,,,,sahi kehte hain. U too had been long worried regarding ur career and finally u did find your way to the goal . Aau ebey chakiri chhadiba k nahi eetey aau bhabibaku padibani. "The Importance of a thing is not felt , unless u feel the pain of losing it" (Raju might have got his answer).
Probably by now u must have started feeling bore (must be laughing at such stupid jumbled up words making no sense) , so just a few more lines before I conclude.

Teasing , quarreling will never end and if any day , or any how if u have ever felt that I have hurt you, forgive me . Never had any Intentions such but as to say "to err is Human" so mistakes do happen with everybody, if any had happen such, forgive . We will miss you the Most !!!!!!  Be in touch . Have a great future ahead *******God Bless you.

A Day without Friens :dedicated to those who gave my life a whole new meaning.

Regarding my Re-location to pune from bangalore I was quite enthralled . Even I had started day dreaming much before . New friens, new office , new place overall a new adventure; all this was enough to cajole me , to tempt me , but the greatest thing was yet for me to realise. As the days, so was the life ,normal and easy going. Since we had already have our training completed , we had nothing much to do. And time was fun during those days . That week of seven days was really an unforgetable moment for me. I had everything, my freedom, my money, time and overall my friends , my life . Everyday ,every evening was a show time for us.
Photography , partying, carting and what not the crazy  we did .The whole of bengaluru was almost covered within these six days. Till the date I was in my world of fantasy, my dream . The day finally came when I had to leave for Pune. As there were few things left for packing and I had to leave as on 7pm the plan to Wonderland was cancelled and rescheduled, that we all b going for carting. None the words can describe the amusement , the time we enjoyed being together. But as the day approached I felt the heat , my world of fantasy, dream started shattering . I realised my guilt , my stupidity Ohhh!! God !!!!!!!! I can't bear losing my friens. But time is nowhere for anybody to wait ,it has lapsed; 'The moment gone is the moment lost' . I really felt like eating my words , my verbs as I was set to said goodbye.I was really praying in my god for strength & courage so that I maynot  break down there and equally cursing him for being so kind to me initially for having such friens. Now at this stage I feel that I really lack words to suffice those moments , those feelings. Someone has ever truly remarked, that the feelings of  love, emotions, & affection  hardly can any words describe. Those expressions can hardly b supressed, they are spontaneous. A life with friens is much far far better compared to a heaven where u need to spun ur thread alone.
A hearty Thanks to Lipi, Sri , Chinki, Deepak ,Piu and others for giving my life a whole new dimension & meaning.

Happy to be Back

Hi, friens i am really sorry  for being absent for such a long time. But as of u know the intricacies of life twist themselves in such a way round that u fall to their prey with no where to escape and thats when u realise that u are lost, lost in the sands of time, duties and responsibilities. And in the end when u turn around u see that u have come far ahead leaving ur friends, ur family or probably u have left them far behind ,lost or swept along with the winds of time.
Life is not just a bed of roses ,it equally serves u thorns also. And this u realise when in the race of time and speed u stumble, u reach a point where there is no road ahead and fear of  taking a WRONG TURN so that it may not jeopardize ur life , ur career and lifelong hard work. But finally, its you who have to take the decision, who have to put the best foot forward, take the risk and have to endure the pain and the sufferings that come along the way.

HI, FRIENS

Hi, friens this is all total my new experience in blogging.
I'm really quite thrilled and confused with what stuff i will begin.
hope u will all like it , soon i will b sharing my experience & current topics wid u. hope u will find it interesting.